My blog name comes from places where I feel most at home or
which have had a deep impact on me.
In an earlier post I wrote about the “Sun” part. To continue, I will now look at “Sand”.
Sand:
Many of my earlier posts have made mention of my upbringing in the
Arizona desert. Hence, my
connection with not only sun, but sand.
When I was in 5th grade my parents built a large house at the
base of the mountains and we moved from town to this desert oasis. My backyard was no longer fenced in, but
wide open to the Sonoran desert.
This became our playground.
The house sat up on a promontory and we had to slide down a rather steep
cliff to get to the wash below. My
brother taught me how to repel down that sand cliff using ropes and pitons when
we were older. Once at the bottom,
there was a dry riverbed – an arroyo – with cactus and palo verde trees, rocks,
bushes, animal holes. We had to learn to be wise when exploring or
playing. Always wear long pants
and boots, preferably, so cactus didn’t catch your bare skin or to provide some
protection should you unfortunately happen upon a snake. Always take a sturdy stick with you and
never, NEVER turn over a rock with your hands – use the stick – lest you meet
up with some unexpected fellow hiding beneath it. The danger added an element of adventure. The sandy riverbed wound for
miles. We traversed it
all. We dug forts into the hot,
dry sand and covered the hole with creosote branches. We would find a shady spot under a green-barked tree to sit
and sift for sand rubies by the hour – anticipating the reaction from our mom
to our treasures when we returned.
Yes, this scorched, sandy world was my setting for hours of happy play. No TV, internet, ipad, video
games. It was heaven.
As I have aged, I have also discovered an equally strong
pull towards the sea, however. We
spent many a summer going to San Diego for a long weekend where we would spend
each day on the beautiful sandy beaches of Coronado Island. Sand castles, seashell hunting, sun
tanning – another kind of heaven.
My husband and I now take our own children there for the same
memories. I love the sandy shore line; I love the warmth of the beach radiate through my towel into my skin as I lay
there, molding the sand just so to fit the contours of my body. I love the smooth flow of the waves
onto the beach at dusk, as the sun casts its orange-red glow over the water.
Desert sand, ocean sand. Both places mean “home” to me.
Quote of the day:
To see a World in a Grain of Sand, and a Heaven in a Wild Flower, Hold
Infinity in the palm of your hand, And Eternity in an hour.
~William
Blake
I can identify with sun, but sand is just gritty to me. Not a big beach fan. Did you happen to see Allan Wright's post last week (I think) about sand. He had some interesting thoughts too. It makes me sad that kids today can't explore the world the way you described your playing.
ReplyDeleteI love the sandy beaches too - grew up going to LaJolla and Newport beaches. But what I have really grown to love are the rocky, pebble covered beaches of the Pacific Northwest! That is what calls to me these days.
ReplyDeleteSounds heavenly!
ReplyDeleteThat Blake quote is one of my all time favorites! I love your description of how the sand molds itself to the contours of your body. Being a Mainer and not having spent much time in deserts, it never really appealed to me, until I read your description - what a wonderful childhood and amazing memories. Thank you so much for sharing.
ReplyDeleteWhat a tribute to sand. I've never been in a desert but will remember some of your tips if I ever go, especially the rock and the unexpected fellow. And what are sand rubies? Your post took me away to an unknown place. I can hardly wait for the "stone."
ReplyDeleteWe are shaped by our childhood and places we live at. You write beautifully about the sand and how it became a playground for you and your brother. I have never been in a desert in my life. I can see that once the conferences were over you had time to enjoy the writing. Sun, sand, and ... what role do the stones play in your life?
ReplyDeleteYou vividly showed me how the desert can be a playground. I grew up in the hills and woods of southwest Virginia, so I know how to play in a thin forest. You've forever changed my perspective of desert life!
ReplyDeleteI never thought I was a sun and sand person ... and then discovered how much more grounded and alive I feel near the sea. I love the idea of having the Sonoran desert for your backyard. How fortunate!
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